Courtesy
of Jennifer Good
- Read erotic fiction or prose together.
- Act on each other's fantasies.
- Watch an erotic movie together.
- Play a sensual board game.
- Create a mock lingerie photo shoot. If you are
comfortable, use a Polaroid or video camera for
more realism.
- Study up on new sexual positions you'd like to
try with your partner. Get a few index cards, and
write one idea on each card. Every time you want
to try a new position, mail your partner the card.
Or, leave it in a private place where they will
find it.
- Visit an erotic toy store, either online
or nearby, and talk about different things you may
want to purchase in the future and why.
- Create a sensual kit that you both may use
during any love play time. Fill it with items you
would both be comfortable using, such as: tea
lights, feather, massage lotion, blindfold, silk
scarf, rose petals, camera, etc.
- Create a Love Play Book Club. Go to a bookstore
or library together, and each of you choose one
how-to type sensual book. Set a date somewhere
around the two week mark, with separate days for
each other. On your day, you or your partner will
provide the other with a demonstration of
what they learned.
- Experiment with food. Take a special trip to the
grocery store together. Only purchase things you
plan on using that night. Alternatively, you could
raid your kitchen for items you would like to use.
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